Especially when you're dealing with humiliation. Since both of them derive pleasure from their different types of it, the reward is the same, yet wives search hot sex different all at once. I'm more than happy to cut them down verbally on their own terms during sex (never in real life in that way), because it's enjoyable to them. I can't speak to what they get from it, but I have a penchant for being sadistic and verbally acerbic. It pleases me to hurt them that way in bed, because it adds to their pleasure. And I get a charge from doing it. When Mr. V is being cucky , I enjoy it because I've always enjoyed fucking other guys, and having it play into his need for insult just makes it much better. When he's talking hotwife, it plays into my enjoyment of being a slut. That gets us both off. With , it's mostly just sadism since he's not cucked or into hotwife in the way that Mr. V is. I like hurting him because he likes to be hurt. He likes to be wounded, and I'm more than happy to injure him that way. And no worries about the emotions thing. I know they can be tricky and find their way into everything in life.